The “Lady of Ro,” Despina Achladioti, was the woman who lived alone on the remote island, a stone’s throw away from the Turkish coast. She became a symbol of patriotism and Greek defiance by raising and lowering the Greek flag every day for decades. Despina Achladioti passed away on May 13, 1982.
Her small daily act of patriotism has seen her compared to France’s Joan of Arc or Britain’s Boudicca. She became known in Greek collective memory as the “Lady of Ro.” Eikones magazine wrote about the woman saying that:
“Μost people live their lives without a purpose. Despina Achladiotou’s life has a purpose: to let passing ships know the islet of Ro is Greek. As soon as she spots a ship, she runs to the mast that has been set up on the beach, and raises and lowers the Greek flag several times. And the ship, according to the international courtesy rules of the sea, raises and lowers its own flag.”
These were the opening sentences of the April 1956 article in Eikones, which made the “Lady with the Flag” famous across the nation. Achladioti, born in 1890 on Kastellorizo—then a part of the Ottoman Empire and only miles from the Turkish coast—lived a hard life on the small, rocky outpost.
In 1927, she sailed with her husband to the even smaller island of Ro next to Kastellorizo, where they eked out a living on the deserted rock, living off subsistence farming. No one actually knows why they chose to live there alone.
However, after her husband died in 1940, Despina continued to live her life on Ro—half a mile from the Turkish coast—joined only by her blind mother, who sailed from Kastellorizo.
Lady of Ro’s funeral with full military honors
Even though Ro, named after the Greek letter for its distinctive shape, did not formally join the Greek state until 1947, as the Dodecanese were controlled by Italy, Despina would raise and lower a Greek flag every day. She did this on a daily basis as her home island of Kastellorizo was invaded by the Italians and bombed by the Luftwaffe, with its 14,000 or so inhabitants being evacuated by the British.
This small, daily act that was an integral part of her solitary life on Ro despite weather conditions, was recognized by the Greek state upon her death on May 13, 1982, when she was buried on the island with full military honors. The military tradition continues, with Greek soldiers stationed there raising and lowering the flag every day, come what may.
A bronze statue for the Lady of Ro
Plans are officially underway to immortalize Despina Achladioti with a bronze statue on the very islet where she defied the odds for decades. The statue will depict the “Lady of Ro” in her most iconic stance—unyielding as she raises the Greek flag. “This work is a timeless message of self-denial and national dignity,” Mayor of Kastellorizo, Nikolaos Asvestis noted. “It is a small token of gratitude for her service and a reminder of our own debt to our heritage.”
The “Lady of Ro,” as Despina is known, embodies a spirit of pride, determination, and resistance with which many Greeks strongly identify. Her image is used to summon up a spirit of national pride which has become ubiquitous across the diaspora. It’s a worldwide legacy which the lady herself, who barely strayed in her long life from two tiny islands in the Mediterranean, would struggle to even comprehend.
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